I’m trying to decide if I’m actually attracted to this guy or not.
When he confessed he was interested in getting to know me, I agreed to give us some time but ever since then I have slowly lost interest.
We have only texted and called a few times (over the course of about 3 weeks) but lately I really don’t want to answer his texts. Is this a normal thing to feel? I’d hope to at least feel kind of excited when I get a message from the boy I like but I frankly I get overwhelmed and sometimes bothered when he texts me. Just today he texted me if I wanted to go on a call tonight but I couldn’t even reply because I honestly didn’t want to. I already feel like I’m done but I haven’t made that decision yet because I want to think it’ll be different in person? Yes, we haven’t met in person yet. I mean, we have but it’s always been around other people and lockdown has made it impossible for us. The thing is, I don’t feel a certain way when we talk, it’s like I’m talking to a friend instead of the boy I’m supposed to have feelings for. I don’t want to lead him on and go into a relationship without genuine feelings.
Should I wait until we are able to meet in person or is this already over?
When he confessed he was interested in getting to know me, I agreed to give us some time but ever since then I have slowly lost interest.
We have only texted and called a few times (over the course of about 3 weeks) but lately I really don’t want to answer his texts. Is this a normal thing to feel? I’d hope to at least feel kind of excited when I get a message from the boy I like but I frankly I get overwhelmed and sometimes bothered when he texts me. Just today he texted me if I wanted to go on a call tonight but I couldn’t even reply because I honestly didn’t want to. I already feel like I’m done but I haven’t made that decision yet because I want to think it’ll be different in person? Yes, we haven’t met in person yet. I mean, we have but it’s always been around other people and lockdown has made it impossible for us. The thing is, I don’t feel a certain way when we talk, it’s like I’m talking to a friend instead of the boy I’m supposed to have feelings for. I don’t want to lead him on and go into a relationship without genuine feelings.
Should I wait until we are able to meet in person or is this already over?
